It has been a looooong time since I have written because I’ve been saving some things for when the time was right. If you’re reading this you are likely a friend on Facebook and know I moved to Cali. But how did I get here and why?
Back in January 2017, I vowed to put myself out there more (See Blog Here) and share my experiences with you and if I didn’t share anything, it meant I met someone. Well, I did go out with someone extra special almost one year ago and we are happily still together.
Last summer I gave up on love. I was settling for being alone because I hadn’t met the right guy who gets me and balances me. One day I got a message from an old friend who I was back in Jersey and wanted to catch up.
This just wasn’t any old friend. I had a crush on him in high school, he was my older brother’s best friend and grew up down the street! He was also the one who held me back from punching my brother’s ex gf in the face the night of his funeral; but I digress…
We caught up and talked a lot about my brother. Tears were shed (mine of course) because he shared things with me that I never knew. And to talk to someone who understands is very powerful. We continued to hang out often and one day I realized he liked me more than friends and vice versa.
To be continued….