How I Got Here: Part I

It has been a looooong time since I have written because I've been saving some things for when the time was right.  If you're reading this you are likely a friend on Facebook and know I moved to Cali.  But how did I get here and why? Back in January 2017, I vowed to put…

2017: The Gift That Keeps On Giving

Ciao 2016!  You were great but 2017 is going to be even better!  I have to admit that 2016 wasn't so bad for me: I learned a lot about myself, even more about others and getting closer to what I want.  What else could a girl need?! If you're a regular reader (and by regular…

Dating Etiquette

Let me first say that I am not a seasoned dater.  Dating is fun, but the process seems so difficult and daunting.  You start talking to someone online and then you text and then call and then an actual date.  Right now I am in the infancy stages of talking to someone via text.  Not…

Online Dating: Oh Brother!

Back in October I went on a date with this guy I met via Match.com.  He was nice enough to go on a second, third and fourth date but he didn’t thrill me.  To be honest, his personality was kinda blah but I could tell he was a good guy so why not? A few…

Getting Naughty

Online dating is such a weird concept.  It's equivelent to a catalog you can flip through on a Sunday morning without having to get dressed and look your best.  With that said, I often wonder how serious people are.  Are you just window shopping or here to buy?  I am in the buying stage with…

Dating Anonymous

Hi.  I’m Liz. I’m 34 and have never been in a serious relationship.  Sounds like my introduction to an AA meeting, right?  Unfortunately the above statement is true and I call it my own Dating Anonymous. I have dated a few men but never had the urge to “settle down” and get married until recently…

Dating Sucks: Take 2

I feel like a kid learning to swim by taking a chance and giving up when it doesn't work out.  Recently, I took a dip in the dating pool again. I met this super nice and cute guy via Tinder.  Tinder is an app that syncs with your Facebook profile and per recent reports it's just…

I Want To Be Hot

My original goal in my journey was to just get healthy.  While this journey will probably continue for the rest of my life I already feel better but what's the next goal? I want to be hot!  You read it right, I want to be hot!  Being hot has different meanings to everyone.  I think…

Dating Sucks

Last weekend I had a date that I felt went pretty well.  I’m going to leave the details to myself because turns out I’m friends with his brother (HI JOE!!!) but I will say there weren’t fireworks.  Then I figured you only get so much out of one date and was open to another. The…